Hey everybody, Rob here again. And today Iām here with my guest, Jason Friedman. How are you today, Jason?
Iām great, rob. Thanks for having me.
On the show, yeah. Itās great to have you, despite all the technical issues you and I have had together. How two tech guys can have this many issues trying to do a podcast like. Yeah.
We persevered, buddy. We fight, we fight through it, we. Fight through it.
Yeah, we sure do. So I thought weād jump in and tell us a little bit about your background and how you got into the spatial and then the whole thing about regeneration and customer.
Yeah, sure. You know my my story is a little little different than many. I started out in theater, so I was a behind the scenes guy. I was lighting designer lighting, you know, tech and scene builder. I built scenery and did the lights and stuff for shows. And over the years. Just kind of fell in love. With the whole idea of the theater. On the show and I went to school for that, I have a a degree in lighting design and technical direction. And then from there I went out on the road. I was a rockānāroll roadie, so I toured with a bunch of groups like Peter Gabriel, Fleetwood Mac Rush, and then went on to some more legit.
Wow.
Like the Canadian Power Trio, you gotta love rush, right? Youāre youāre from up there.
Yep.
Iām a rush. Iām a rush fan, Jason. I yeah.
And then. Whoās not? Whoās not right? Theyāre amazing. And then I went out and I did some more legit theater and, you know, robbed the whole journey that I was on with theater. Itās one of those Mr. Miyagi kind of experiences. Youāre learning the wax on wax off the whole ride and then all of a sudden you have some skills that you didnāt realize you had and. My skills were about. Really engaging an audience like I understood, really how to tell a story in a really. Dimensional way that let our customers feel special and feel more engaged and be more bought in to what we were doing with them and as a result built the pretty big business doing that and helping others do. That.
Thatās really cool. I love this story and I have to tell you, you know, point aside. My mother actually worked with Getty Leeās mother for numerous years in real estate that says, and in the other room I I have a copy of power Windows signed by getting himself. So there you go. I am such a.
Get out.
Thatās awesome.
Amazing. Alright, well, I knew I liked you for even. More reasons, right? So.
So there you go.
Yeah. Thatās awesome. Yeah, very cool. Yeah. Itās itās been a. Itās been a journey, you know.
Thatās it. It has we itās an interesting journey now in terms of customers, itās really itās really funny. First of all, you guys have a great website. I have to tell you that number one, itās really good.
Thanks.
Isnāt it all about hitting a motion with customers? And I think you talked about that on your website. What do you think about that?
Yeah, I mean, so my hallucination, if you will, my belief, yeah. And also my everything that Iāve ever tried done, learned, experienced shows me that itās true that it is all about how customers. Feel right? So if you have customers that feel accomplished, they feel like they got value that they got results from working with you, that it was a positive experience. They will tell other people you will feel better, your employees will feel better, right? So creating like this positive experience that you know for customers. Is super powerful as a tool when you wield it with intention, and so my whole business career has been all about that. Helping small businesses, large businesses, universities, institutions, you name it, really being more intentional. Mount the journey that their customers go on with them. Whatever that journey happens to be, whether itās online, offline, both lines. Either way, yeah. But it is about how they. Feel.
Yeah, and and I think a lot of people donāt realize that or donāt understand that and certain businesses are more like for example. Iāve got a really good friend who owns a jewelry store, an independent jewelry store. He does very well. And I can guarantee you 90% of his business is based on emotion. People walk in and say I like that piece. I donāt like that piece that looks good. I donāt like that. Good. Whatās the story? Why you remodeling this? And you know people. Itās funny. People fix stuff.
100%.
Because of the emotional attachment to it, not that itās worth it or not worth it.
Of course.
Yeah. No, 100%. Yeah. And you know itās itās itās everything like you want to do business with people that you like, right? Like you donāt, you know you you you prefer to buy from people that you like you know. And thatās why, you know like look even the biggest brands out there like Amazon like everything they do is to try and be a better create a better experience for their customers because they know that. They want it to be easy, they want to remove every obstacle to something, getting in a customerās way of getting what they want, and so they we talk about this a lot in our business. We help people remove friction.
Yeah.
Right. Itās itās my belief that we as business owners more often than not and mostly without realizing it, we make it hard for our customers to do business with us and we make it really hard for our customers to have a lot of success with us and we donāt realize all these kind of friction points or obstacles that we put in the way. And so I think itās really important. Use your jewelry store as an example, right? If someoneās coming in looking for an engagement ring, you know if if we make it hard for them to like, look around and learn, and and weāre weāre making it an uncomfortable, unpleasant experience, theyāre gonna go right to the next jewelry store. Thereās a million off. Is out there and our friend Google has made it super easy to find them. All right, well, one click away from the next option, so itās important.
No. What in your opinion is the number one friction point that potential customers have dealing with the company?
That. A loaded question, but I will tell you probably the most common friction point I see across all industries, right. Every industry might. Every business might have like a bigger one, but what I see in every business right is expectation. This match, and so more often than not, we we see that customers have an expectation whether the business has set one and managed it or not. And so if weāre not careful about how we help to set and frame up expectations that our customers have, weāre going to miss their expectations and weāre going to have this mismatch where theyāre either you know.
Cool.
Super unhappy or frustrated or what have you. And so itās really important as we look at like the journey that customers have when they enter our world and when theyāre in our world, when they leave our world, making sure that we really kind of pave a path and let them know whatās going to be happening and how itās going to work is really important.
No, I I would agree with you. I mean, I think a lot of times the business owner hasnāt made their expectations clear or the customer. I know in my business, they donāt always listen or want to listen and and and thereās some and thereās some of that and then you know I kind of I kind of described. Marketing agencies, which is the business Iām in as being a menu of services, right, if you want AB and C off to restaurant menu, you pay for AB and C and customers forever are saying Iād like. D and you say to the customer, well, you can have D but D comes at this cost or this price or this option and then the customer looks at you and says Iām not paying that. So what do you do to make that customer happy?
Hmm.
Yeah, I mean, listen, I think thereās always going to be that kind of a scenario, right? And so for me, itās about explaining to customers up front like in that scenario, itās like, look, we have a whole menu of services. We have ABC D all the way to Z, right, and and weād love to work with you on the most appropriate services at the right time. Right. Itās not like D might be what you what you want, but really you need AB and C first. So letās explain what this journey looks like and let me paint a picture of how we can work together and how when weāll get to D and when that will make more financial sense for your business, right? And so youāre setting this expectation, what youāre doing is youāre youāre youāre laying out a path that will be a success. Path for them so that they can go down this road and youāre even opening up this aspirational thing of like, look, I wanna help you get to D where it makes itās a no brainer to invest that much would D it would. It doesnāt make sense right now. Like Iāll sell it to you. If youāve kind of forced me to, or if youāre even a better partner, youād say look, Iām not going to sell. You did right now because itās not right for you right now. I donāt want to take your money and and create a scenario thatās not gonna help you. Right. And I think customers, most customers are right fit customer for you will appreciate you supporting them in that way. When you do it with kindness. And and really, it requires you to though deeply understanding your customers and their business before you can get all you know go down that road and and and understand enough to guide them that way.
Yeah, I I agree with you wholeheartedly. One of the things that we see a lot is and Iāll. Iāll since weāre playing on the jewelry store scenario, weāll go back to Hello, Phil. By the way, the.
Yeah.
So youāve got 3 drawers, first in a mall. And. One of the things people always do is they fight this price to the bottom. Ohh. Iām gonna sell the engagement ring for 500 bucks. Iām gonna drop it to 300 bucks. I personally think that race to the bottom is a race to be out of business. How do you and thereās a really good book out there called the inside advantage? I donāt know if written read it by Robert Boom. It was written in 2009 and he talks about why you should make your business different. And not fight the price to the bottom. Whatās your take on that?
Yeah. So I thank you for the recommendation. I have not read that book or even heard of it yet, so Iām going to grab a copy of that. I I will tell you that I 100% agree. So thereās another famous book on kind of differentiation is blue ocean strategy, right? And so where it really looks like in this red? See if competition you canāt stand out and it is a race to the bottom, right. And thereās a great example that they use in there of like the circuses out there and Cirque du Soleil. Right. And and if you look out there like Ringling brothers Barnum and Bailey Circus, thatās been around forever, is gone. Right. Yeah. They actually were in that scenario and they didnāt differentiate. It was more of a kind of like, you know, same as the Joneses with everybody else and they and and then Cirque du Soleil emerged. And theyāre doing great. Theyāre going going strong and theyāre charging more per ticket than the circus ever charged because they created and carved out a niche and a a point of differentiation. And they created a different value. Right. And so thereās another great book out there by person, by the name of Dan Arieli called predictably irrational. Yes. Right. And itās another great book, especially if youāre looking at pricing your services and and looking at how to itās, you know, itās behavioral economics kind of book and looks at how people make decisions about pricing and things. And so if youāre thinking about, like, going into a mall and youāre having these.
No.
You know, 3 seemingly identical businesses, right? A jeweler is a jeweler is a. Ruler and they have the same things. They have diamond rings for engagements like what makes them different, right. And so in Danāl book he uses an example of the Economist, right, the the newspaper magazine. And they did this test and they had like, the digital version, which was like $59, I think. And they had the printed version, which was like 100. And $25. When they had those two options next to each other, thatās what people were comparing. And what do you think most people bought the $59 option, so they went with the online only. Well, they tried another example and they did a 59 online only 125 print only and 125 print and online. Now that wasnāt a mistake. I said that right. Thereās two that are the same price, but they have both pieces in it. And So what happened there, almost everybody bought the $125. Print and online. Now, why did they do that? They did that because theyāre comparing the value of the comparison set, which at that point was not 59 versus 125, it was 125 versus 125. So they didnāt go to the lowest price option. Now this was at the within one business. But think about this in terms of three different retailers, right? What is the package? What is the offering that youāre putting together that makes it more valuable? And itās not just the stuff, right? I believe itās also the experience, the environment, the relationship with the sales people. So when you start to think about this in your business, you itās creating contexts like Cirque du Soleil reinvented what circus? This means right? And they created a whole new value and context of value, and so the ticket was worth more to people and they were willing to pay for it. So in your business, I think itās really important and incumbent upon you to really look at what is that value equation. And if youāre just trying to go like that race to the bottom is itās a race to your death. It really is. Right. Itās itās, itās you. Wanna you, Dan Kennedy. You know, the famous copywriter, heās like, you know, thereās thereās no value in being the second lowest price, right? You like, just be the highest price. Right, but back it up with value and so I love working with brands that want to create a truly valuable experience for their customers, have top notch products and services. And when youāre able to do that and understand that customers are happy to pay for it, itās itās they they perceive that value.
You know, and sometimes the price is itās the value. But if the customer really wants to work with you, the price doesnāt become the objection. So I give you an example of that. I rolled in in January and I raised all my prices across the board by not 5%, not ten per. Said try 30% crossword. Just said thatās it. I knew I was going to pull the switch. There was two reasons I did it. One, I knew 90% of my clients wouldnāt bark at it because they have a value and I was gonna use it as a way to get rid of the 10% that I wanted to get rid of anyone.
Yeah.
So the minute they saw the price increase, they said weāre not doing this. I said, great. Good luck. I wish you.
Yeah. And I think thatās smart, right in a way. And itās not, itās not disingenuous either, right? Like if you want to provide a great experience for your customers and you want to provide top quality service, you need to have the the financial wherewithal to do that, right? It costs money these days to run a business. And so we need to be able to do that. I also think that the value. You has to be looked at so like as you look at your business and you look at like increasing your prices and bringing on new clients, I think you really do have to keep looking like what are we doing today that we should no longer be doing? Thatās not working for our clients that weāve just kind of been doing and itās not necessary and what do we need to be doing for our clients to. Take them to the next level. I have a a a very dear friend and client who has a like a. Of, like a spiritual healing practice, right. And so in her business, sheās been charging the same amount for people, and she goes on what she calls Spirit time. Right. So everybody has, like, an hour long session. But sometimes it goes a little longer. Right. And she doesnāt nickel and dime people. She doesnāt charge them beyond that. And people start taking advantage of that. Right. And so she was in a situation where she needed to raise her prices cuz expenses are higher, rents higher electric, everythingās higher, right. And sheās running out of hours to, you know, sheās trading time for money. And so as she looks at her business, sheās like, you know, what do I do? And we had a long conversation about this. And I said, listen, the people that are that are used to getting a certain service level. Like you can maybe grandfather them and say, listen, my prices are raising and hereās how itās working. And because youāve been with me for so long, you can buy a, you know, a six pack or whatever for one last time. For what this is, and thatās what it is going forward, this is the new pricing. Right. And hereās why. And, you know, and everyone was very grateful, you know, and most of them even said, you know what? I appreciate you doing that. Iām happy to pay the new prices cuz youāre amazing. Like the value you create is amazing. So a lot of times you probably agree with this already. I know weāre very aligned in a lot of stuff like itās in our head that we canāt do that also and the value like if we really think about whatās happening with our clients.
Yes.
You know, they they are. Theyāre actually I I know that I was feeling like with with thereās a vendor that I work with. Iām like you are youāre not charging me enough. You need to charge me more. I feel like Iām taking advantage of you because youāre doing such a great job and youāre not charge.
Yes.
You know, like maybe Iām crazy, right? But I I want to pay them more because I want them to be around for a long time to be able to support our business and the. Others out there. So yeah, pricing is an issue. Itās itās interesting. Itās an interesting dilemma that a lot of us have.
Itās always and and you shared the story about your friend, and thatās exactly what I did. I said, OK, Iām doing this for three weeks.
Yeah.
I will give you this yearās pricing, but keep in mind and the route I went was I made it clear all Grandfather pricing went and went everything. Yep. So if you were on special deals, theyāre gone. If you got discount, theyāre gone. And here it is and surprisingly enough.
Yep. Yeah, she did the same thing. She did the same thing you had. You had six. You could have six more sessions at the old price if you wanna buy them. In advance otherwise. Itās gone forever, so I love that.
And and itās and itās. Testing while weāre on pricing just cause I like to go down this. Road, what do you?
Yeah.
Think about discounting and people offer specials for period. Do you think thatās a good idea? Bad idea. Do you kind of say donāt do it or if you can do it, be genuine about it. Like, how do you go?
Yeah, I mean, this is a, this is an interesting conversation and debate. So Iām in a couple of different high level masterminds. And this is always like where people take the put the boxing gloves on and they start sparring over this. Right. So thereās some very and and and everyone that Iāve listened to make arguments has a good argument for this. So the the simple answer from me is I donāt really know. I can tell you this like what I would do. Right. So I do believe that thereās. A time and a place to offer some discounts or savings on things I donāt know that I would offer it necessarily on your flagship products. It does tend to devalue those. In some cases it depends on your. Market, you know, if everybody in your market is discounting, you know, you gotta ask question like why is there a reason like and if I do I do. I want to stand out from that competition or not and itās a itās a decision that you need to make. I do like to create different. Products and different things that are less expensive. Right. So I might take like if I have a course or a training, I might take a piece of that out and sell it at a smaller price because I think it stands alone on its own and it can create a lot of value for people and it also and itāll help them and it also gives them a sampling, a taste of the full picture of other things that they might want to do so. So a lot of times Iāll do something like that, Iāll. Pull something out. Of a of a course or a program or training or something like that, where Iāll do that. The other thing I do is Iāll create a special product for a special scenario. So like instead of like for Black Friday, I see people like will discount all their products and sell them for a small amount of money. I might have a product that I only sell on Black Friday that you canāt get other times of year and thatās the special deal that I make. So itās not that Iām discounting something else.
Yes.
So itās a personal thing, right? Itās I my sense though is. I I like. I like to have established a value and kind of and keep that value there.
Yeah, I would agree with you. So moving on for pricing a little bit, letās letās talk storytelling cause thatās a fun one. How do you how do you think storytelling impacts the customer journey? And I think itās an underused technique.
Well, so I think storytelling is everything. So, so this oneās near and dear to my heart. So thank you for this question. Look, I think the reason in our business, we have a program called the kinetic customer formula and what we do is we help small business owners. Really understand the journey that their customers go on and and once we understand the journey we try and remove all the friction. Right, take all the objections, all the obstacles. As out of the way as we can or reduce the amount of friction as much. Then we look at the points where thereās still some tension, still more difficult where people maybe like not have the right motivation and we look at how do we induce or boost momentum in those moments. So what weāre really doing is weāre building what I call like a water slide. So you imagine youāre on this like wonderful water slide. Thereās plenty of water flowing and youāre able to just kind of. Effortlessly go down it versus the water slide youāre on and thereās not quite enough water and youāre like always getting stuck and youāre like, frustrating like, oh, I gotta try and move again. Right. And so I like to think of our, our customer journey really is what we call a kinetic pathway. Something that, like, allows you to flow through that. And when you do. That right, thereās stories that are being built by the customer, right? And those stories of their success are the stories that theyāre going to tell, probably along the way. If you give them enough reasons to tell the story along the way. But most importantly, theyāre going tell them at the end, and theyāre going to feel compelled to because it was. Exciting for them. They got their results and they felt really good. And so as we help people craft that kinetic pathway, itās always with the end in mind. So what we do is we start at the end, we say like what is the worldās best customer testimonial that you could get. Right. And so we look at our different avatars, our different, you know, prototypical clients. And we say to them, if they were, they just finished our our an engagement with us, whatever that is an online course shopping in our store, a yoga session, whatever your business happens to be, they just finished it and they loved it and it was really. Good. What would they go and tell somebody about it? Like, what would the juicy words be? What would they talk about like at at the beginning? Maybe they had some, some trepidation about starting, or maybe they were like, all in whatever it was for the. What would that journey be? And so we have our customers write this out. We call this the ideal customer script. What would that ideal customer say that it was so wonderful? And then from there we reverse engineer it. So what weāre doing, Rob, is weāre creating like little mile markers or little little triggers all along the way so that they are capturing the story. That we want them to tell at the end, all through the journey. And so they actually live that journey. And itās not. Itās not manipulative in that what weāre doing is weāre literally giving them this ideal experience because weāve designed it. Itās like the perfect Disney experience, if you will, right. And of course, nothingās perfect. But but really trying to get it to that place. And as they go through that, the stories that come out of that, that becomes the best marketing. For your business. Right. Like I believe I see all these gurus, all these marketers out there teaching us how to fill our funnel, how to use Facebook ads, how to use Google, how to use TikTok, Pinterest, you know, YouTube, you name it, right and all thatās important. But if once they get in, they buy it, letās say they actually buy it. All that stuff works, but they donāt get the results from our product or our service or our programs. Hmm, it doesnāt matter that we spent. Theyāre gonna ask for a refund, or theyāre gonna leave a negative review where theyāre not gonna tell other people. And what if every time 1 customer came in, they told two other? All of a sudden your business has this compounding effect, and the reason that they will and that will end up happening, it is the stories. It comes back to your marketing that the front end, all the stuff that youāre gonna start doing when you fix the back end when you do what we teach you to do and you make this kinetic side, this kinetic pathway of your business.
Yes.
Work the the marketing is your customer success. Your customers are your marketing and they become you know we this army of raving fans but they become your sales force. Like your customers, become your unpaid sales force because they feel this compulsion to do it and itās their story. So when theyāre telling it itās authentic, theyāre late. Like they live it like when theyāre telling you like the engagement, the energy, the excitement, itās real because theyāre reliving the wonderful experience they just had. And so every business thatās not capitalizing on these stories. And this is true on the inside of your business. Iām only talking about your customers, but your employee experience is. Too, like I talked to people all the time about like they have retention problems with their employees or theyāre having a problem like attracting great talent. Theyāre not getting the the caliber of employees that they want. This fixes that too because itās exciting to work for a business thatās creating such momentum and results for their customers, right. And and when we remove friction. For our customers or from our customers journey, we actually remove friction from our employees journey. We make it more fun and easier place to.
Yeah, that.
Work.
That is so true in that. Mentioned refunds and I like to go there because refunds are are a pain in the you know where weāve all had them customers not happy. Youāre past the 30 days customer still wants to refund. They donāt care. Iāve seen some interesting ways of handling refunds.
Yeah, weāll probably get.
Yep.
A couple of businesses in the Toronto area. Handle businesses if youāre part of their loyalty program, they extend your days for refunds. So we were my partner and I were out shopping in a well known store and their policy is if you have a loyalty card, you get 30 days to do an exchange or refund, not ten. So thatās how they handle it. How do you how do you handle refund objections like how would you handle?
Well, so I. I I like that idea of like if we have a long term relationship in place like youāre part of my loyalty program, right. You have a special you, you get something special in advance to reward loyalty. Right. I like that idea. Right. I believe very much in reward and. Recognition. So I think thatās great. So yeah, kudos to them and and online businesses, especially online businesses that have like some kind of subscription or membership program, this is a great way for them to think about it. If youāre in our membership, then you can actually get extended refund terms on all of our other products and services.
Yeah.
Right. So thatās thatās a, itās an interesting way to kind of help with retention within your membership. But like Iām Iām Iām a little bit weird this way, right? Like I donāt want someone in my program if they donāt like it.
I agree.
So. So I would rather refund somebody, even if itās beyond the time frame, then have them be unhappy. And itās because I donāt want their money. I want their success. And if they arenāt able to find success with us, then I want them to go find success elsewhere. So. So what I what I would do and what we do as a matter of you know, our operations here is we have a stated refund policy and if someone comes in and they we have conditional refunds also like if they if they try and do. The work like. If they havenāt opened it up and they havenāt made any effort, thatās different than if they have made some effort and theyāre not enjoying it or theyāre not getting the value. Right for some. Reason what I would like to know though is why right? Because our whole mission is to help people get results and so I would rather kind of talk you out. Iām not the person thatās like, look, no matter what, come into our program, you can get your money back. Like itās like, look, if you feel like this is a good program for you, then come.
Yeah.
On letās do this. And if itās not working out then you can have your money back. But itās not like come in no matter what. Just do it. Just do it. Do it. Now. You have 5 minutes left and. Then you can. Get your money back. I donāt wanna pull in all the the people that are sitting on the fence that arenāt committed. Like I believe that when people purchase something, itās an intention, not a commitment. Right. And I want a commitment cause when I have committed people committed, people get results, right, people that are on the fence, they donāt get results, right. And thatās true in almost anything in life. And So what I try and do with customers that come into my world is I try and and and get a commitment to them to the result. And if this is not the result. Flop and this is not the time for us. Maybe thereās a time for us later. And itās not that I donāt want to help you. Itās that I know that I can best help you when youāre like. Heck yes. Iām gonna make this happen. I will. I will show up. And do you know more than 100% of my side if I have a committed client. But if theyāre not committed, I canāt force them over the finish line. Iām not gonna be able to help them. Right. And so we try and be like we talked about expectations. Doing earlier I try and really set expectations like what is the right fit client for us look like and in my business it doesnāt matter if you have a brick and mortar business or you have an online. Business what it matters is that youāre a committed business owner, right? That you actually are looking to create an experience for your customers that helps them get results. That helps them increase their engagement. That helps them, you know, become whatever version of themselves that they want to become. Right, thatās. Thatās whatās important to me. And so when it comes to refunds. I do think having a risk reversal, kind of, which is really what a refund is a guarantee of some sort. I think thatās an important piece and obviously itās required like like legally you know, depending on what country youāre in, where you do business, whatever thereās credit cards and whatever thereās requirements for that, right. So we got to meet the obligations. Of the law. But I think philosophically speaking, like it should be there to help when thereās a real problem, but I donāt think people should get in unless theyāre really feeling like this is the right thing to do.
Yeah, love that answer. So you. Work with companies to help them foster their customers. Tell. Tell me a little bit about your formula and how it works.
Yeah. So in a nutshell, thereās, we believe thereās, thereās this idea of the result, the ideal result that we want, right. And for all of us, we want our customers to rave. About. The process right like, Oh my gosh, I just worked with Rob and studied digital media. It was amazing. Like, I couldnāt even believe that this was. Possible, right? So theyāre raving about it. We want them to renew. Like, if you have a monthly service or you have an annual service, we want them to renew that ongoing service. We want them to. To repeat and buy other products and services from us, maybe they buy a higher level product or service or maybe they buy a different product or service and ultimately we want them to recruit other businesses and customers into our ecosystem. That to me is success and we believe that that comes from a combination of four factors, right. Attitudes of customers behaviors. So what are they thinking and expecting? What do they do? Doing. The friction. What is stopping them from getting results and momentum? How can we increase the likelihood of them staying engaged and So what we have is a formula that weāve created that weāve been you know weāve battle tested over the last 30 years. I know I donāt look that all. Thank you. But in all seriousness like weāve weāve got all tested this and itās what weāve used with everyone from you know the. Disneys of the world to the universities, to small entrepreneurs, small business. And and what we do is we go through and we analyze your journey and what we do it based on your actual customers. So we look at your customers and we create these prototypical customers avatars which you know everyone in the marketing world talks about. But we do it on a slightly deeper level, right. And so the way we think about it, again bringing in my theater. Background. As we think about it, as if you were going to play the character, the role of your customer on stage. If you had to do it believably, if youāre like Matthew McConaughey, and you had to get into character and act them out realistically, what would they be saying? What would they they be thinking? What would they be driving? How would they be interacting? Would they be angry? Would they be frustrated? Would they are they get up early in the morning, like what brands are they like all the basic stuff that? Everyone thinks about. With Avatar, but then also that other bit. How do you authentically portray them and when you can step into their shoes? Itās a different game, and then once youāre in their shoes, we actually have you walk their journey. Me in their shoes, not from the perspective of the the company, which is what we mostly do, but really from the perspective of the customer. And itās an interesting experience, right? Most people that come in and kind of go through this experience with us, they have some kind of very emotional reaction and. A lot of. Times. Itās crying and frustration at themselves. Because they have that that epiphany of like ohh gosh, we really are making it hard. Like I canāt believe weāre doing this. I never had. Any clue? Right. And so when we go through that, thatās when we can then go in, we can really analyze it. We can pull away the friction, we can reduce that. We can find opportunities to add momentum. We can figure out where we need to set expectations like just because someone has a problem, letās say, in step five, that might mean that we had to set an expectation in step one. Right, not at Step 4. And so we really get to see it and and honestly, we map these big boards out, Rob. And itās itās so transformational for our class, itās like itās the most fun thing Iāve ever done in my life because you see the epiphanies that people are having throughout it and they leave with an actionable game plan to, like, fix this stuff. And you know you, you, you pick, you prioritize what is the biggest obstacle thatās stopping people. So I had a woman just totally.
Yeah.
Like, not even like a a business case. It was an author, right and so. She had a. Book and she was finding that she was having a hard time getting people to read past Chapter 2. And so we did the same map because it got too jargony and too technical. And so like, she was losing people and she was not. She was giving them all the information. It was from her perspective. She has the curse of knowledge. She knows too much, right? But her customer wasnāt ready for all that yet. And so we rejiggered.
Why?
Some of this and she she put this out in a different way and all of a sudden people are getting the end. And she put motivational like little side authors note saying listen on the other side of this chapter is a massive breakthrough. Itās hard. I get it. Hit the gas pedal and power through this because thereās unbelievable amazingness on the other side right in her words, whatever she said. And they did. And that was just that little dose of momentum. That they need it to just get over the hill. Itās like when youāre driving the car and you kind of like coasting. As long as youāre going straight or downhill, the car is gonna keep moving, but if it. Starts going uphill. You gotta hit the gas pedal, otherwise itās not. Keep going, right? Or the electric if youāre a Tesla fan, right? So whatever it is, you gotta stay with them. And so in our program, we really go through that. And so the formula helps you look at all of those things, attitudes, behaviors, friction, momentum and how do we achieve that result. And we break it down by every moment that people have with you before they even find you. So we look at like their journey of discovery. Of your business. All the way through to again renewal and buying other products and services and itās a itās a powerful tool and you. You know, over the years as we refine this and and weāve just made it more and more actionable and weāve worked with businesses in every every possible industry. So it applies to you know itās like I know that when youāre talking to everyone, youāre talking to no one, but it really is a people, right, itās itās about people and how people work. So it applies to any business online, offline or whatever. And and itās just something that I think, especially nowadays with AI and and the way the worldās working and and itās getting more and more. Additive the only true way to kind of have your fingerprint, your uniqueness. It is your experience. Itās not the physical products, itās not the service. Itās the way people feel after interacting with your business.
True. You know, so since you went there and mentioned in two most dreaded letters in marketing called AI and you had to go there and we. Yeah, I know you can. Itās the buzzword these days. You can thank ChatGPT for that. A year ago we we know we know.
Yes, I had you. I couldnāt help it.
Microsoftās a big player in open AI and copilot. We know Googleās doing some. Amazing things with Bard right now. How to say I play into all this, doesnāt it? Doesnāt it? Is it just kind of a tool like where do you sit with that?
Well, so I think AI is awesome and I think AI is. I think. Itās an opportunity to be a great tool. For us, for all of.
Yeah.
Us, right. So what Iāve heard it called as a like a joke, but itās really powerful to me, is accelerated intelligence. Right. It helps you move faster. It gets you information in ways that you can process.
Yes.
Faster amplified intelligence, right? Like losing that artificial idea. And so for me, I find it to be a fun brainstorming tool. Like itās having like a ghoul kind of sparring partner with me when Iām trying to brainstorm something. Or itās a great tool for me when Iām trying to get insight into my avatar.
Yeah.
Like if Iām trying to figure out how you know how to play this customer on stage, I use that that example just a little. There we go. This will help me think about those people. Right. So one of my one of my good friends Will Hamilton, he has a heās a an online tennis instructor. Right. He has like one of the largest online tennis instructing. Platforms out there.
Hold on.
Yeah, itās called fuzzy yellowballs.com definitely worth the check out. Heās an awesome, awesome human. He also is studying. Out to be a stand up comedian and heās using the the art of like writing jokes in writing, copy to, you know, in marketing and itās really kind of interesting the parallels between. The two he uses AI to find out interesting things to help write better jokes or write better copy so heāll write. Heāll put down there like if so, letās say I was going to market that, that jewelry store, right and and you know heās heās trying to find a way to get a a a 25 year old male to come by.
In.
From him, he would say, you know, as a 25 year old male whoās afraid of picking the wrong ring. What are the top five things that heās worried about? And it might come up with five things and that helps him kind of understand what those fears were and might say. So if I was able to eliminate this fear, what might be true? And then I will come back and give them some other ideas. So itās just helping them think through, like whatās going on in the heads of those people. And itās a. Powerful tool, that said. You know, thereās also people that are coming up with products and services that arenāt their own and like having AI generate it and go out there tomorrow and competing with other people that have products and services, right? So thatās why I think the. France is the great equalizer, right? Like Iāve been saying it for 30 years, right? Like itās more important today than ever before. I like sound like a broken record. If you go back and listen to me on stage 30 years ago, very awkward young kid. And today on stage Iām saying the same thing, right. The most important thing is the experience that customers have with your business.
I do.
That is whatās gonna be the great equalizer. And so AI is a tool. Itās not gonna replace people. Whatās gonna be more important for everybody thatās listening to this is you really do need to put on that lens of your customer. You need to walk a walk. The walk in their shoes. You need to see what theyāre experiencing, cuz thatās going to be what decides. If youāre here tomorrow or not.
Mm-hmm.
No, I agree with you. I think I think AI is just making my job and your job probably more easier. Itās doing some of that background work for us and you know. I I think I saw a presentation last week by Canada Post and part of it was really interesting part was Gen. X sorry Gen. Z, which is the younger generation and part of it was AI and the gentleman who did the AI presentation said listen, you want the best way to learn a I throw $30.00 at chat. GPT 4 copilot for a month to go. Try it and go play. Thatās the best $30 youāre gonna.
Yeah, I think itās interesting though. So and Iām a mastermind that I run, weāve got everybody using it now. And whatās interesting is their team like hereās the thing more often than not, your team is already using it, but they think theyāre gonna get in trouble. So theyāre not letting you know. And so we, weāve actually made it be a requirement of our teams like we want.
Yeah.
Either use it and play with it. And and utilize it and see like what can we make easier? How can we be using our skills in a in our in our unique abilities and our zones of genius in an even better way because weāre able to offload some of these other things into automated ways. And so I think itās a really powerful tool and I think we should all be embracing it. And I do think that those that kind of like. Snubbed their nose up at it and and donāt. Donāt figure out how to embrace it in some way. Are gonna be sorry that they hadnāt spent a few minutes on it, you know?
Yeah, I would agree and I and the big thing about being in this business is weāre always learning. So you know if youāre anything to do with marketing and agency technical, youāre always learning, I mean, and we all learn different ways. Podcast books, Iām an avid reader. Iām. Iām still a book a week guy, so I. I read one book a week. Yeah, and I will. I love to read. And, you know, somebody said my mom was talking to me earlier today, and she said.
God bless you, man. Me too. Thank you.
How many books do you have on your night stand? And I said right now I got 7 of them and that doesnāt count to three Kindle books on the go when Iām on. The road so. You know, I Iām. Iām there. So you you find your your learning consumption network and just keep learning and itās just I think weāre at a fascinating time right now. Yes.
Yeah, I agree. I agree. You know, AIās AIās here with us. I think itās going to be here for the duration. So if youāre on the fence about it, play with it, learn a little bit more about it. Be curious.
Jump in, jump in now. Donāt wait. Yeah, I would agree here.
Yeah, just be curious. I think being curious is is a great thing, you know, and learn a little bit.
Yeah, I I agree with you. If somebody wants to learn more about to set formula has the best way.
Yeah. So Iāve got. Well, first you can go to our website cxformula.com. Thanks for the kind words about it earlier. And you can check us out. But I actually I have a special PDF just for you guys, your people. Rob, if thatās cool. If they go to, yeah, if they go to gift.cxformula.com forward slash.
That sure is.
SDM for stunning digital media, Iāve got a special PDF there. Iām not gonna tell you what it is. Iām gonna create a little curiosity. Right, so hereās what Iām gonna tease you with. Itās. Freaking awesome. Itās an amazing strategy thatās also actionable, and itāll take you 10 minutes to go through it. And so itās gonna give you some ways to think about your business a little bit differently that you can actually do something with. I only asked two things. One, if you go there and you download it, actually open it up and take a look at it, please donāt let it just sit on your hard drive. Collecting dust and digital dust and two my emails in there shoot me an e-mail. Let me know you think about it. Iād love to hear from you. Hear your thoughts and and see if thereās a way we can help you with your.
And what I would tell you is knowing Jason, this PDF is going to be awesome cause him and his team are awesome. So so they so real quickly. If somebody wants to reach out to you emails the best way or are you on any socials.
Thanks, man. Appreciate you. Weāre on a whole bunch of socials. Iāll make sure you have all the links to put below this because I canāt even remember them all right now, but if you hit us up at cxformula.com, thereās a way to send us a note or all of our socials are on there as well.
Now, thanks, Jason, and you have yourself an awesome weekend, my friend.
Awesome buddy. Thank you, rob.
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